Hysun and Kimberly

Adoption: Answering Your Questions and Easing Worries

We know that thinking about adoption can bring up a lot of questions and worries. That’s totally normal! We want to talk about some common concerns and share how we plan to handle them.
Will the child know about their adoption?
Absolutely! We believe in being open and honest from the very beginning. We’ll share their adoption story in age-appropriate ways, celebrating how they came to be part of our family.
How will you handle questions about birth parents?
We’ll always speak positively about birth parents and answer questions truthfully. We’re open to whatever level of contact you’re comfortable with, whether it’s sharing updates, photos, or even visits.
What if the child struggles with being adopted?
We’re committed to providing a loving, supportive environment where it’s okay to have big feelings. We’ll seek out adoption-competent counselors if needed and always be there to listen and reassure.
How will you handle cultural differences?
We’re excited to learn about and celebrate your child’s cultural heritage! We’ll incorporate traditions, foods, and stories from their background into our family life. We’re also open to connecting with cultural mentors to help us along the way.
What if the child has special needs?
We have the resources, support system, and dedication to care for a child with special needs. We’re committed to helping every child reach their full potential, whatever that may look like.
How will you discipline?
We use positive parenting techniques focused on communication and understanding. We don’t believe in physical punishment. Instead, we guide children to make good choices and learn from mistakes.
Will the child fit in with your family?
Absolutely! Our hearts are ready to love unconditionally. We’ll make sure your child knows they belong and are a treasured part of our family.
What if you can’t have the same bond as with a biological child?
Love makes a family, not DNA. We already feel a strong connection to the child we’ll adopt, and we know that bond will only grow stronger over time.
We hope this helps ease some worries. Remember, we’re here to listen to your concerns and work together to make sure your child has the best possible life. If you have any other questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. We’re an open book!